But while their romance was locationally rooted in the city, the traditional approach they took to dating highlighted the actress’ North Carolina upbringing. “Before we were together, at the beginning, I would always follow Southern girl etiquette,” Qualley told Cosmopolitan. Antonoff was the first to say “I love you” and often the first to initiate their conversations over text. So I just have to be myself … Jack makes me feel safe and comfortable.”Qualley describes falling in love with Antonoff as “the biggest feeling I’ve ever felt,” adding, “He’s been the person I’ve pictured my whole life. '”Qualley and Antonoff married on Long Beach Island in 2023, with Taylor Swift, Zoë Kravitz, Channing Tatum, Cara Delevingne, Lana Del Rey, and more in attendance.